by Maria Mikhaylova, degree student in Media
Adapting to my new life in Finland wasn’t too difficult for me for many reasons. First of all, I am used to darkness and cold during winter time, as for I am from Russia and we have exactly the same climate. So I probably don’t suffer from it as much as my classmates who came from warmer countries. What I noticed here is that finns are complaining about it more than we do in Russia, and many people that I met are dreaming to move to some warmer place at least for winters. Maybe I’m the weirdest person on earth, but I really love winter more than summer and I find it a very inspiring and beautiful season. And yes, I also enjoy the darkness (but not in the mornings, it feels so bad to get up when it’s dark outside).
I really like that finns appreciate people’s private space. I am an introvert, and I felt really uncomfortable when, for example, random people would start talking to me in public transport. Especially annoying it is during a long-distance train trip. People somehow feel that they SHOULD start a conversation, otherwise they’re not polite. In Finland it’s vice versa. It is polite to be silent and not to bother a person with your presence. I can say that I really enjoy it!
I also appreciate that Finnish people are very humble, never brag and maybe are a bit shy. From my perspective it is a sign of good upbringing and valuable qualities in a person. And also if you break this wall of shyness and coolness (of course it should happen without pressure) you will find out that they are very nice, honest and quite easy-going people. They can even joke 🙂 My experience in meeting Finnish people is only positive.
Also what I think is great, is that people are helpful, in small and in global things. I used to stop people in the streets to ask the road quite many times when I was here as a tourist and had no internet on my phone. Every time the person would stop and start explaining me in details how to get to the place, no matter what gender or age he or she was. Once I saw how a person fell down on the railway station just while running to a leaving train. The machinist stopped the train, and all the people who were around helped this man to get up and made sure he was alright (it took about 5 minutes or maybe even more), then helped him to get on the train. For me it is a wonderful example of a well organized society where people take care of each other.